Last updated on December 4th, 2022 at 02:15 pm
In relationships just as in life we need to be careful what we say because once we say them we can’t take the words back and even when our partners forgive us they are not likely to ever forget.
Some of the things that can help you avoid saying something hurtful to your partner are;
Really thinking about what you’re going to say before you say it.
Taking a deep breath before you speak.
Trying to see things from your partner’s perspective.
And most importantly, always choosing your words carefully.
There are so many hurtful things a husband might tell his wife but some of the worst things a husband can say to his wife are;
“You’re not good enough.”
“I don’t need you.”
“I don’t love you anymore.”
“You’re not attractive.”
“I wish you would just leave me alone.”
“You are good for nothing.”
“I wish I didn’t Marry You.”
“I don’t care about you.”
“You’re just like your mother/sister.”
“Nobody else would want you.”
“I’m better off without you.”
“I’m going to leave you.”
“I’m having an affair.”
“I slept with your best friend.”
“I slept with your sister”
“I slept with your cousin.”
“I didn’t do anything wrong.”
These are just a few examples but any variation of these phrases can be extremely hurtful to your wife.
If you have said any of these things to your wife then you need to try and make things right because words can cause a lot of damage.
If you find yourself in a situation where you need to apologize to your wife for something you’ve said, make sure you are sincere and that you really mean it.
Sometimes the best way to make up for hurtful words is to simply say “I’m sorry” and mean it from the bottom of your heart.