How Does A Man Feels When His Wife Is Pregnant?


As a man who has experienced the roller coaster of emotions that come with a wife’s pregnancy, I can confidently say that it’s not easy. My wife and I have a 2-year-old child, and we’re currently expecting another one. When my wife first got pregnant, I was hit by mixed emotions. I felt like I wasn’t ready for fatherhood, and I even silently blamed my wife for getting pregnant. There was also a moment of wondering if the baby was mine, though I never spoke those thoughts out loud. However, as time went by, I began to be more accepting of the pregnancy and started helping my wife more.

I remember how challenging it was to watch my wife grow more uncomfortable as the pregnancy progressed. But instead of being overwhelmed by the experience, I tried to be as supportive as I could. I helped her turn in bed at night as the baby got bigger, ran errands for her, and took over some household chores. Gradually, I started enjoying the pregnancy and getting more excited about becoming a dad.

I also started bonding with the fetus growing inside my wife’s womb. I talked to her daily, read to her, and even sang to her. As the weeks went by, I felt a connection growing between us. It was a unique feeling, and I can’t describe the joy and excitement I felt every time I felt her kick.

Bonding with your unborn child during pregnancy can have a positive impact on your relationship with your child when they are born. It can also help fathers-to-be develop a sense of responsibility and attachment to their children. I believe that my efforts to bond with my child in the womb helped me prepare emotionally for fatherhood and made me more involved in the upbringing of my child.

As my wife’s first pregnancy developed, I noticed a shift in our intimacy. Her body was changing, and I didn’t know how to navigate the situation. I realized that for a woman who is pregnant, physical contact and continuous reassurance that she is loved and still attractive is crucial. During that time, I learned that it’s essential to make an extra effort to show affection and support to your pregnant partner.

One of the things I realized was that because my wife’s body was changing, there were times when she didn’t feel good about her appearance. She even broke down, wondering if her body would ever go back to how it was before she got pregnant. Assuring your wife that you love her and appreciate what only she, as a woman, can do – carry the pregnancy – can help her feel more appreciated even as her body changes and stretch marks appear.

Being supportive during pregnancy means being present, showing love and care, and offering emotional support. It means helping out with household chores, attending prenatal appointments together, and being an active participant in the pregnancy journey. These small gestures can go a long way in making your partner feel valued and supported during a time that can be physically and emotionally challenging.

The turning point for me was being present in the delivery room during the birth of our child. I remember feeling a mix of anxiety, excitement, and awe as I watched my wife go through labor. The experience changed my perspective on fatherhood, and I became more committed to supporting my wife in raising our child.

Now that we’re expecting our second child, I can confidently say that my feelings are different. I’m more prepared and less anxious this time around. The experience of fatherhood has been a rewarding one, and I’m more excited about expanding our family.

In conclusion, being a supportive partner during pregnancy is crucial for men. While the emotions can be overwhelming at times, it’s important to be there for your partner and take an active role in preparing for the arrival of your child. Being present in the delivery room can be a transformative experience and can change your perspective on fatherhood. I encourage other men to embrace the journey and be supportive partners throughout the pregnancy and beyond.

Gerald Omondi
Gerald Omondi
As a writer, I have a passion for exploring a variety of topics. When I'm not putting pen to paper, I enjoy traveling and spending time with my family. As a husband and father, I understand the importance of balance and finding time for the things I love. Whether I'm delving into new subjects or spending quality time with my loved ones.


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